I was born at the start of the strawberry season. My mom used to tell me that she felt her first contractions while picking the first strawberries of the season in our garden. Since then, strawberries have been my favorite fruit. That happened on June 7th, 1966. I had been expected since my parents got married ten years earlier, just a few days before Prince Rainier and Grace Kelly. My mom would recall the two marriages like they were somehow connected. Yet I doubt the Monaco couple ever knew about it. So unfair to the noble couple!
My parents lived in Beauraing and I lived there until I went to college. Beauraing is a particularly unexceptional small town. However, reportedly, the Virgin Mary chose to appear to five local kids quite a few times at the end of 1932, also being the year when my parents' house was built. No connection between the two events, just saying...
Our house was located at the exit of Beauraing, probably less than 100 meters away from an even smaller village, Baronville. Some despicable boys from my school would say I was not a real "Beaurinois" because my house was in Baronville. But I was adamant: our house was located within the territory of the bigger "city". Ten years after I was born, this argument lost all relevancy: in 1976, the Belgian government decreed the "merger of communes", which meant Baronville became like a district of Beauraing. That summer 1976, we had a historic heatwave and Assia was born, 2000 km away from Beauraing.
On the 7th of June 1976, I remember as if it were yesterday, I realized I had reached a 2-digit age. Before reaching this ominous milestone, I thought time was not a parameter on how to live a life. Until that day, I was convinced my horizon was unlimited. The sudden realization of the inescapable flow of time caused a state of anxiety that has never entirely left me. I entered my teenage reluctantly. At the time I was quite a believer, in spite of my mother's staunch opposition to the church, god, priests, or anything spiritual in general. Only after she passed away in 2004 did my dad rediscover the virtues of faith in the face of palpable death.
Eric Blétard
Ho Chi Minh City - Vietnam
Eric@bletard.com
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